Sticks & Stones May Break My Bones, But Words Will Never Hurt Me- NOT……..

Last night I got a call from one of my readers that literally broke my heart.she had got all glammed up to go to an event. Makeup on point & a banging outfit. As she entered the venue, she spotted a guy that she hadn’t seen in years. He began to approach her because she did look familiar, but somewhat different. Before they could exchange words, a family member of my reader interjected & said ” yes that’s ……….. she’s just fat as hell now” then began to laugh. She was so embarrassed & her spirit was broken. She immediately left after that. I can totally relate to this. Even when you do have a great outlook on who you are and feel good about yourself, words like that make you want to crawl under a table and hide. We all have insecurities and areas that we feel need improvement. But to be called out like that in a room full of people by a family member is just plain ole ignorance. Some people should be more considerate of other people’s feelings. She said she felt like a child in that moment being picked on by a bully. I immediately began to tear up. It brought back memories of my childhood and all of the fat jokes and comments that were made in reference to me being fat.

To my reader please know that you are glammy first and foremost. You are witty, smart and uniquely and beautifully made. Always hold your head up and if ever faced with this again. STAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Confidence at any size is key and I know you got it…………
Much love,

The skinnyphatglammygal
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Jacket: Steinmart shirt& jeans: H&M Shoes: Steven by Steve Madden watch: Betsy Johnson Belt: thrifted Jewelry: GHB


Have a glammy good day. Thanks for stopping by……

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